Songwriter Ben Howard shares an intimate portrait of happiness in 'Old Pine' that's as familiar as a comfortable pair of old blue jeans. Think about what defines happiness. Webster's defines happiness as a state of well-being and contentment. But where does that state come from? How can we achieve it? Can it be as basic as not feeling alone?
In today's modern world, we seem to put up more barriers than ever when it comes to getting to know people. The general consensus seems to be, "I'd talk to you, but I don't want you to feel like I'm bugging you. Because I'm not needy." So instead we randomly stare ahead while riding the elevator with people who literally live two doors down from us. But maybe it's not that random. Maybe social norms and electronic gadgets have made it too convenient and preferable to isolate ourselves. Could we be putting up our own barriers to connect with others and share happiness?
In this human tragedy we call life, certain circumstances are beyond our control. Sometimes these circumstances are big and sometimes they are only big things in our minds. But it takes people who know us to help us get through them. It really is true - we get by with a little help from our friends. Ultimately, our friendships are defined by being in a particular time and place and feeling compelled to share something with someone - to comfort them or perhaps it is they who comfort us.
As humans, we are designed to interact. We are created to connect. You don't create memories by yourself (or at least few worth sharing). That's why I like this song and what I think it captures so beautifully. Happiness is sitting around a campfire with friends eating s'mores, best savored with laughter and storytelling.
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